Victim

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Being a victim is suffering from the abusive actions of someone else or the result of unpleasant circumstances. Abel was the victim of Cain’s ungodly activity and a tower fell upon 18 people in Siloam (Gen 4:8; Lk 13:4). The Psalmist said he was “Being persecuted without cause” (Ps 119:86). Jesus was also treated unfairly, as were the early church leaders and many people down through history, especially because of their Christian faith.

It is wrong to victimize others by treating them harshly (Prov 22:22,23; Jas 5:4). When you are the victim of events you didn't choose and had little or no control over, you don't have to remain a victim but instead commit yourself to the Lord and endeavour to respond in the opposite spirit (Ps 10:14; Mt 5:11,12; 1 Pet 3:9). By showing love and extending forgiveness, instead of trying to get even, it will make the perpetrator ashamed of their actions (Prov 25:22; Rom 12:20). Take responsibility for your attitudes, stop rehearsing the hurts recognising you have much to be grateful for.

If you are a victim try not to allow self-pity or a victim mentality to develop. Rather, be like Paul and Silas who, although their backs were bleeding and sore, rejoiced in God. Consequently their situation radically altered and more people became Christians as a result (Act 16:22-40). God is in control and although He allows situations that are not in

Keep your eyes on Christ, not the situation against you

agreement to His character, do not doubt His love – instead look for the good that is buried in what is abhorrent (Rom 8:28). "Though you have made me see many and bitter troubles, you will restore my life again" and this may be so we can empathise with and comfort those who are currently in similar troubles (Ps 71:20; 2 Cor 1:3,4). God’s perspective is different to ours, and eternity will reveal many answers to questions that trouble us in this sin-affected world. He does not condemn us for the wicked things done to us, but offers to draw near to the brokenhearted and comfort those who struggle (Ps 34:18).

The Bible states, "Nothing in all creation is able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Rom 8:35-39). We are not helpless victims, we can choose to bless the Lord at all times and in all situations (Ps 34:1; 1 Thes 5:18).